Security - Factor #2

The second factor associated with security is familiarity. The word familiar is derived from the Latin root familia, which means “family.” Webster’s defines familiar as “friendly” (informal), or “intimate”; “closely acquainted with.” In the context of relationships, familiarity enables us to become more intimate with others. Regardless of the type of relationship—husband/wife, parent/child, older/younger sibling, manager/subordinate—we need to sense we are familiar with the other person’s modes of thinking and means of behavior. But if this dynamic cannot be achieved, then our sense of security will be hampered. Prior to the introduction of sin, Adam and Eve would have experienced the utmost in familiarity. Because they were not inhibited in their relationship with God, they felt completely secure in who they were. Adam and Eve were solid in their love relationship with the Father, as well as with each other. With such familiarity, they were capable of complete intimacy. 

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